kya aapane kabhee apane aur apane doston ke chaaron or latakate hue kathor logon ko lataka diya hai? kya aap nukeele logon se thake hue hain jo hamesha aapakee nijee vaartaalaapon ka hissa banane kee sashakt ichchha dikhaate hain? to yah ejenda badalane aur unhen ek baar aur sabhee ke lie saaf karane ka samay hai, neeche dee gaee yuktiyon par nazar daalen aur ise svayan aazamaen
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"haay" aur keval yahee kahakar shuroo karen. vyakti ko baat karane ke lie protsaahit na karen aur jab tak aapase baat nahin kee ja rahee ho, apana munh band rakho aur ek akshar nahin bolen. agar is vyakti ke paas saamaajik khuphiya jaanakaaree hai, jo maamala nahin hona chaahie ya nahin to yah nahin hota tha, vah sanket lega aur door jaega, lekin jaisa ki bataaya gaya hai, maamala shaayad kuchh usase adhik jatil hai

2
apane chutakule se hanso mat. agar mauke se ve majaakiya hain, apanee jeebh pakado, apane sir ko door karen ya bas kuchh khaen, hansane se khud ko banae rakhen. ek hansee ek nimantran hai, jo aap chaahate hain usake vipareet. yah vaastav mein kathin ho sakata hai, vishesh roop se yadi aapake paas vinod kee buree bhaavana hai, lekin kam se kam koshish karen aur apane munh mein kuchh bharane mein bahut madad milatee hai. paanee se door raho! aap keval khud ko chakit karenge.

3
chale jaana. hamesha. unhen holave mein dekhen? sampark se bachen aur jaldee se chale jao. agar aapako karana hai to bhaago. agar ve aapase poochhate hain ki kyon, aap kuchh karane ke lie bhool gae hain ya kuchh skool saamaan print karana hai, ek bahaana ya do ya das khojen. aap jo kuchh bhee karate hain, band na karen.

4
lanch ka samay mushkil hai. yadi vah aapakee mej par baithata hai, to use kathor na karen, kyonki aapase baat kee jaatee hai, javaab dena yaad rakhen. lekin bas is vyakti ko hastakshep karane ka koee mauka na den. pichhale haphte aap aur aapake doston ne intarn kee cheejon ke baare mein baat kee, ya kuchh mazedaar cheejen jo ghar ke raaste par hueen. jo bhee ho, isake baare mein ek bada sauda karen aur baatacheet ko vaartaalaap rakhen. jab tak aap log baat kar rahe hon, ve aapako yaadrchchhik roop se baadhit nahin kar sakate hain.

5
nirjaleekaran ke parinaamasvaroop prakrti kee koling. koee bhee paryaapt taral padaarth nahin le sakata hai. apane aap ko kshama karen aur nikatatam jal-phavvaare par jaen, daava karate hue ki aap nirjaleekaran se peedit hain. choonki teesaree manjil par paanee jahareele kailshiyam se spasht roop se sankramit hai, isalie aapake paas pahalee manjil tak jaane ke alaava koee aur vikalp nahin hai. parinaamasvaroop aap sabhee seedhiyon aur daavon ke kaaran apana samay le sakate hain, ki aapako ech 2o ke uchch sevan ke kaaran chhotee mahila ke kamare ka upayog karane kee aavashyakata hai .... jaise ki isamen paryaapt samay nahin lage, to ek lamba samay tha kataar aur aap chauthee manjil tak sabhee tarah se nahin ja sakate kyonki vahaan shauchaalay kaam nahin karate hain ...
agyaanee logon ke aas-paas hone par, aksar ek bahut hee anaavashyak aur anichchhuk vishayon se avagat karaaya ja sakata hai. unhen rokane ke lie unhen behatar tareeka kya hai, jab koee pooree tarah se un sabhee cheezon se asahamat hota hai jo ve kahate hain? yah aapake lie majedaar ho sakata hai aur unake lie bahut pareshaan ho sakata hai, jo vaastav mein aapake lie jeet-jeet kee sthiti hai. yah ek haasyaaspad aur yathaasambhav uddeshy ke roop mein hone ka ek shaanadaar avasar bhee pradaan karata hai. chetaavanee !: isase logon ko yah sochane ka kaaran ho sakata hai ki aap ashikshit ho sakate hain, lekin yah bhugataan karane ke lie ek chhotee see keemat hai yadi yah parinaam logon mein rah rahe hain kyonki aap spasht roop se asahamat kie bina saamaany baatacheet karane mein saksham nahin hain.

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apane doston ke saath ek samajhauta karen jahaan aur kab milana hai, isalie jab ghantee bajatee hai, jitanee jaldee ho sake, meeting spot par aur prthvee kee satah se gaayab ho jaatee hai, gupt suraag hota hai aur ek gupt deevaar baakee ke lie hotee hai . lekin, agar aap mein se koee asaphal rahata hai, to vyakti ko kisee any tarah se doosaron ko jaanana chaahie aur chipachipa vyakti ko hila dena chaahie. kaise? khair, bahaane, bahaane. use batao ki aapako baatharoom ka upayog karana hai aur lambe samay tak rahane ja rahe hain. jab tak ki yah vyakti amaany ya kuchh na ho, vah shaayad adhikatar paalan nahin karega. to aapake paas spasht drshti hai, aur aapake doston ko mil sakata hai. bas yah kahana yaad rakhen ki aap hol mein kisee se mile the aur is pariyojana ko khatm karana tha jise aap bhool gae the! aap moorkh ho!

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chhupaen aur talaashen, unake bina bhee jaanana. vaastav mein ek bahut hee kushal tareeka hai. sabase rachanaatmak sthaanon mein apana dopahar ka bhojan khaen. aap aur aapake dost bhojan kar sakate hain, jim mein kha sakate hain, chhat par khaate hain, ek ped mein khaate hain, ek seedhee mein khaate hain, holave mein, kaksha mein, kampyootar room mein kaheen bhee! apanee kalpana ka prayog karen, lekin yaad rakhen, har jagah ek hee jagah kee talaash na karen. apane dushmanon ko kabhee kam mat samajho. ve pata laga sakate hain aur phir aap kharaab ho gae hain. to un sthaanon ke beech mein badalaav karana yaad rakhen jinhen aap khojate hain aur apratyaashit hain.

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hipstar bano. vah jo bhee kahata hai usase kabhee bhee sahamat na hon. "mausam aaj sundar hai!", ve kah sakate hain. aap kya karate hain? sahamat nahin hain. "tum aisa sochate ho? yah garm karane ka tareeka hai. mujhe sooraj se napharat hai. mujhe barasaat ke din pasand hain ..." yahaan aap imo lag sakate hain, lekin he, kya aap us vyakti se chhutakaara paana chaahate hain ya nahin? to shaant, asahamat aur apana mukhauta pakado.

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nazarandaaz karana. anadekha karen, anadekha karen aur anadekha karen. "are, aapako holave mein nahin dekha! mere saath vyast ... baal!" jitana aap kar sakate hain ignorai. yadi any sabhee kadam viphal ho jaate hain, to yah aapako bas bacha sakata hai. agyaanata hamen avaanchhit mahasoos karatee hai. isalie yadi sabhee "achchhe aur alag-alag" kadam viphal ho jaate hain, to yah saphal hone ke lie barbaad ho jaata hai!
1
"haay" aur keval yahee kahakar shuroo karen. vyakti ko baat karane ke lie protsaahit na karen aur jab tak aapase baat nahin kee ja rahee ho, apana munh band rakho aur ek akshar nahin bolen. agar is vyakti ke paas saamaajik khuphiya jaanakaaree hai, jo maamala nahin hona chaahie ya nahin to yah nahin hota tha, vah sanket lega aur door jaega, lekin jaisa ki bataaya gaya hai, maamala shaayad kuchh usase adhik jatil hai

2
apane chutakule se hanso mat. agar mauke se ve majaakiya hain, apanee jeebh pakado, apane sir ko door karen ya bas kuchh khaen, hansane se khud ko banae rakhen. ek hansee ek nimantran hai, jo aap chaahate hain usake vipareet. yah vaastav mein kathin ho sakata hai, vishesh roop se yadi aapake paas vinod kee buree bhaavana hai, lekin kam se kam koshish karen aur apane munh mein kuchh bharane mein bahut madad milatee hai. paanee se door raho! aap keval khud ko chakit karenge.

3
chale jaana. hamesha. unhen holave mein dekhen? sampark se bachen aur jaldee se chale jao. agar aapako karana hai to bhaago. agar ve aapase poochhate hain ki kyon, aap kuchh karane ke lie bhool gae hain ya kuchh skool saamaan print karana hai, ek bahaana ya do ya das khojen. aap jo kuchh bhee karate hain, band na karen.

4
lanch ka samay mushkil hai. yadi vah aapakee mej par baithata hai, to use kathor na karen, kyonki aapase baat kee jaatee hai, javaab dena yaad rakhen. lekin bas is vyakti ko hastakshep karane ka koee mauka na den. pichhale haphte aap aur aapake doston ne intarn kee cheejon ke baare mein baat kee, ya kuchh mazedaar cheejen jo ghar ke raaste par hueen. jo bhee ho, isake baare mein ek bada sauda karen aur baatacheet ko vaartaalaap rakhen. jab tak aap log baat kar rahe hon, ve aapako yaadrchchhik roop se baadhit nahin kar sakate hain.

5
nirjaleekaran ke parinaamasvaroop prakrti kee koling. koee bhee paryaapt taral padaarth nahin le sakata hai. apane aap ko kshama karen aur nikatatam jal-phavvaare par jaen, daava karate hue ki aap nirjaleekaran se peedit hain. choonki teesaree manjil par paanee jahareele kailshiyam se spasht roop se sankramit hai, isalie aapake paas pahalee manjil tak jaane ke alaava koee aur vikalp nahin hai. parinaamasvaroop aap sabhee seedhiyon aur daavon ke kaaran apana samay le sakate hain, ki aapako ech 2o ke uchch sevan ke kaaran chhotee mahila ke kamare ka upayog karane kee aavashyakata hai .... jaise ki isamen paryaapt samay nahin lage, to ek lamba samay tha kataar aur aap chauthee manjil tak sabhee tarah se nahin ja sakate kyonki vahaan shauchaalay kaam nahin karate hain ...
agyaanee logon ke aas-paas hone par, aksar ek bahut hee anaavashyak aur anichchhuk vishayon se avagat karaaya ja sakata hai. unhen rokane ke lie unhen behatar tareeka kya hai, jab koee pooree tarah se un sabhee cheezon se asahamat hota hai jo ve kahate hain? yah aapake lie majedaar ho sakata hai aur unake lie bahut pareshaan ho sakata hai, jo vaastav mein aapake lie jeet-jeet kee sthiti hai. yah ek haasyaaspad aur yathaasambhav uddeshy ke roop mein hone ka ek shaanadaar avasar bhee pradaan karata hai. chetaavanee !: isase logon ko yah sochane ka kaaran ho sakata hai ki aap ashikshit ho sakate hain, lekin yah bhugataan karane ke lie ek chhotee see keemat hai yadi yah parinaam logon mein rah rahe hain kyonki aap spasht roop se asahamat kie bina saamaany baatacheet karane mein saksham nahin hain.

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apane doston ke saath ek samajhauta karen jahaan aur kab milana hai, isalie jab ghantee bajatee hai, jitanee jaldee ho sake, meeting spot par aur prthvee kee satah se gaayab ho jaatee hai, gupt suraag hota hai aur ek gupt deevaar baakee ke lie hotee hai . lekin, agar aap mein se koee asaphal rahata hai, to vyakti ko kisee any tarah se doosaron ko jaanana chaahie aur chipachipa vyakti ko hila dena chaahie. kaise? khair, bahaane, bahaane. use batao ki aapako baatharoom ka upayog karana hai aur lambe samay tak rahane ja rahe hain. jab tak ki yah vyakti amaany ya kuchh na ho, vah shaayad adhikatar paalan nahin karega. to aapake paas spasht drshti hai, aur aapake doston ko mil sakata hai. bas yah kahana yaad rakhen ki aap hol mein kisee se mile the aur is pariyojana ko khatm karana tha jise aap bhool gae the! aap moorkh ho!

8
chhupaen aur talaashen, unake bina bhee jaanana. vaastav mein ek bahut hee kushal tareeka hai. sabase rachanaatmak sthaanon mein apana dopahar ka bhojan khaen. aap aur aapake dost bhojan kar sakate hain, jim mein kha sakate hain, chhat par khaate hain, ek ped mein khaate hain, ek seedhee mein khaate hain, holave mein, kaksha mein, kampyootar room mein kaheen bhee! apanee kalpana ka prayog karen, lekin yaad rakhen, har jagah ek hee jagah kee talaash na karen. apane dushmanon ko kabhee kam mat samajho. ve pata laga sakate hain aur phir aap kharaab ho gae hain. to un sthaanon ke beech mein badalaav karana yaad rakhen jinhen aap khojate hain aur apratyaashit hain.

9
hipstar bano. vah jo bhee kahata hai usase kabhee bhee sahamat na hon. "mausam aaj sundar hai!", ve kah sakate hain. aap kya karate hain? sahamat nahin hain. "tum aisa sochate ho? yah garm karane ka tareeka hai. mujhe sooraj se napharat hai. mujhe barasaat ke din pasand hain ..." yahaan aap imo lag sakate hain, lekin he, kya aap us vyakti se chhutakaara paana chaahate hain ya nahin? to shaant, asahamat aur apana mukhauta pakado.

10
nazarandaaz karana. anadekha karen, anadekha karen aur anadekha karen. "are, aapako holave mein nahin dekha! mere saath vyast ... baal!" jitana aap kar sakate hain ignorai. yadi any sabhee kadam viphal ho jaate hain, to yah aapako bas bacha sakata hai. agyaanata hamen avaanchhit mahasoos karatee hai. isalie yadi sabhee "achchhe aur alag-alag" kadam viphal ho jaate hain, to yah saphal hone ke lie barbaad ho jaata hai!
